CUSTODY
Have you ended, or are you about to end, a relationship with your child's other parent? Are you anxious about where your children will live and who will care for them? Is your contact with your children being limited or denied? Maybe custody with the other parent seemed like the right call a few years ago, but things have changed since then.
If you have a custody case pending, think you may have one, or are considering modifying an existing order, I can help you move from confusion to clarity. My focus is on reaching a reasonable agreement wherever possible, not dragging your family through a long, expensive court battle.
What you do, and don't do, during a custody dispute can significantly affect the outcome. Courts and guardians ad litem evaluate how you conduct yourself, from what you post on social media to how you speak about the other parent in front of your children. I guide my clients through these decisions in real time, so you're not left guessing whether something you did, or didn't do, will help or hurt your case. Read more about what to do and what not to do during a Virginia custody case
HOW I HELP YOU
Custody decisions shape your children’s lives for years. Here is how I help you prepare and present your case:
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Listen and assess.
Before we meet, I will review any existing court documents and a confidential intake form that you complete, so our consultation time is spent advising and listening. We'll discuss your specific situation, understand what's really at stake, and identify your goals.
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Build a clear plan.
I lay out realistic steps toward an initial custody order or a modification of an existing one, focused on mediation and collaboration so you get an outcome that works for your family.
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Guide you through the details that matter.
I help you understand how everyday choices, communication with the other parent, social media posts, your participation in medical appointments and school events, can affect your case, so nothing catches you off guard.
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Drive the legal work.
I prepare legal documents, correspond with opposing counsel, research relevant law, and advocate for you at trial if it comes to that. I also make sure the guardian ad litem sees the full picture from your perspective, so you can focus on being the parent your child needs right now.
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Support you after the order is entered.
Custody doesn't always stay settled. If your circumstances change, I can help you understand whether a modification is right for you.
Virginia custody decisions are governed by what's in your child's best interests, not a preference for either parent. Judges weigh factors including each parent's relationship with the child, each parent's willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent, the child's needs, and any history of family abuse. Read more about how Virginia courts decide custody.
Transparent Pricing: I believe you deserve to know what to expect before you hire an attorney. Contested custody cases begin at $8,750, plus costs. Every case is different, and I'll give you a realistic estimate for your specific situation during your consultation.
FEES
ANSWERS
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
A few of the questions I hear most about custody. Read more custody and visitation questions answered.
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It might. Virginia's child support guidelines factor in how much time each parent has with the child. But courts decide custody based on what's best for your child, not the financial impact. If you're seeking equal time, be ready to show you're genuinely able and willing to handle that responsibility. Judges and guardians ad litem evaluate actual involvement, not just the request.
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Legal custody is the right to make major decisions for your child including schooling, medical care, and religion. Physical custody determines where your child primarily lives. Parents can share one type of custody while the other is held solely by one parent, and parents can have shared physical custody and shared legal custody.
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Virginia courts require a material change in circumstances since your last order, including but not limited to, a parent relocating, a shift in your child's needs, or a change in either parent's health, living or employment situation, along with proof that modification serves your child's best interests. Read the 5 signs it may be time to modify your custody order
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It depends on several factors including how cooperative the other parent and the opposing attorney are, the judge's schedule, weather-related court closures, and whether your case settles or goes to trial. Most custody cases I've handled in the Richmond area take about six months from filing to final order.
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Usually not directly. Judges rarely question children in open court. In many cases, a guardian ad litem meets with your child privately and reports back to the court, so your child's voice is heard without having to face a judge or either parent directly. Read more about the guardian ad litem's role.
TESTIMONIALS
In Their Own Words
How it feels to have me in your corner.
"Connie brought not only legal expertise but also compassion, dedication, and a genuine commitment to protecting my best interests. She was a strong advocate for me from start to finish, thoroughly prepared, strategic, and unafraid to speak up on my behalf."
AT, Custody Client
"Thank you so very much for your kind words, support and guidance during this journey. I sincerely appreciate you being part of my team. S, my mother, family and I all thank you."
L.S., Custody Client
"I appreciate all the work you did, thank you for helping to guide me through such a tough process."
JA, Custody, Visitation & Child Support Client
Your time with your child matters.
Call me to schedule your custody consultation.
