
Meet Connie Clay
Meet Connie Clay
At Clay Law, I believe in treating people the way I want to be treated, with honesty, respect, and genuine care. When you trust me with your legal matter, you can expect clear advice that’s always in your best interest, prompt responses to your questions, and a commitment to keeping you informed every step of the way. If I can solve your problem during our consultation, I will. If I don’t believe legal action is the best use of your resources, I’ll tell you that, too because integrity means more to me than money.
Deep Roots, Broad Experience
I was reared in Virginia Beach and educated at Howard University and the University of Virginia School of Law. My legal journey began as a prosecutor in Jacksonville, Florida, where I learned the value of hard work, integrity, and resilience, skills that I bring to every case today. Over the years, I’ve served as a senior attorney for the Florida Department of Children and Families, worked closely with families, social workers, and mental health professionals, and eventually opened my own boutique law firm focused on family law and child welfare.
In 2020, I returned home to Virginia to serve my community with the same excellence, honesty, and compassion that have guided my career. I’m proud to be known for my forthrightness and diligence, and I hold myself to the highest standards of professionalism. If you hire me, you’ll get the truth, even when it’s hard to hear, and my unwavering commitment to the best outcome based on the facts of your case and applicable law.
The Trusted Guide That You Need
Navigating family legal matters can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. As someone who has walked similar paths, as a single mom, divorcee, and caregiver, legal guardian and conservator, I understand the emotional and practical challenges you’re experiencing. My role is to be the steady, trusted guide by your side: listening without judgment, explaining your options clearly, and leading you through each step with compassion and confidence. Clients value my thoroughness and honesty, knowing they have a dedicated advocate who truly cares about their future.
Stories That Matter
Some of my most rewarding work has been helping families through difficult transitions:
Aunt Bessie:
When a devoted great-aunt fought to bring her niece and nephew out of foster care, I stood by her side. Against the odds, we succeeded, and the children were placed in a loving home with family.
Jacob Jefferson:
I advocated for a young man facing serious charges, helping the court see his unique circumstances. The result gave him a second chance at life and education.
Nate Jackson:
In a complex custody battle, I helped a dedicated father secure custody of his children, ensuring their stability and well-being.
(Names and details have been changed to protect privacy.)
Education & Credentials
Howard University
University of Virginia School of Law
Licensed to Practice Law in Virginia, Washington, D.C., and Florida
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Beyond the Law
I enjoy reading, traveling, and exploring the vibrant Richmond community. Whether I’m sharing a meal at Croaker’s Spot, thrifting, or visiting the Ginter Botanical Garden, I’m continually inspired by the people and places around me. Service to others has always been important in my life. I am guided by the example of my family of farmers, domestic workers, a librarian, a nurse, and a Navy veteran who became a police officer. I am deeply grateful for the sacrifices of my elders and ancestors, and I hope to honor their noble legacy through my actions. I give back to the Greater Richmond community by serving as a financial literacy volunteer and a volunteer attorney for legal aid. I support the developing world through organizations such as Christian Light School in Haiti, World Vision, Mercy Ships, and the African Children’s Choir. I am also a proud champion of Howard University and the National Museum of African American History and Culture, hoping to contribute in some small way to their missions.
Why Do Clients Choose Clay Law?
Clients choose me because I combine decades of legal expertise with lessons learned from my own family challenges. I understand the pressures you face, and I’m here to help you navigate them with clarity and compassion. My promise to you: I will work diligently, communicate honestly, and always act in your best interest.
Connie Clay’s Reputation

If you’re ready for clear answers, honest guidance, and a dedicated advocate in your corner, call 804.238.7737 to schedule your consultation. You don’t have to do this alone, let’s find the right solution for you.